![]() ![]() If you don’t believe me, watch a James Bond film.Įarly role modeling involving infidelity: This guy has wounds from his childhood and he has witnessed one or both parents cheating over and over again. But, his adrenaline seeking behavior usually extends to his love life and he finds the challenge of conquering new women intoxicating. Yes, ladies, this guy can appear to be really exciting. ![]() High sensation seeker/loves adrenaline driven situations: He loves jumping out of planes, he dreams about racing fast cars, he is saving money for a solo expedition up Mt. In fact, this is his most reliable trait-his ability to always blame others for his bad behavior. But he always, always, always finds away to displace blame. You can ‘nail his foot to the floor’, develop ironclad guidelines, and you can show objective evidence that he is at fault. He will perform the most impressive mental acrobatics in order to make it seem as if others are the cause for his terrible behavior. ![]() If you’re the betrayed, give it to your unfaithful spouse.ĭisplaces blame: This man constantly displaces the blame onto others when he is clearly the person at fault. ![]() If you’re the unfaithful, get it, read it and carefully consider the advice. Fool me twice, shame on me.” That phrase originated because of this phenomenon of repeating bad behavior.įeatured Download: “The Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Affair Partner Now” As they say, “fool me once, shame on you. Unless they have undertaken a long-term process of behavioral modification with the help of a professional, it would be better to assume they will not change. If he uses them frequently, his better judgment has taken a very long sabbatical and it won’t be returning anytime soon.īehavioral baseline & past actions: People’s past actions usually dictate future behavior. But, don’t let substances such as alcohol fool you. In fact, in his mind, only his needs are real and he cannot comprehend that others have needs apart from his own.Īddictive behavioral tendencies: He could be a diagnosed sex-addict, or he may just be an alcoholic or recreational drug-user. His needs are paramount and everyone else exists just to fill them. Narcissism: This person displays pathological selfishness, an extreme sense of entitlement, and he is always looking for new sources (people) to feed his ego. This usually translates into a global disloyalty to everyone in his life. Therefore, he will not settle for being less than top dog. He sees himself as belonging to a ‘dog eats dog world’ where no one is loyal. He appears to lack a conscience in all of his social dealings. Sociopathic attitudes: Constant disregard for rules lacks guilt and remorse when caught doing something harmful. Here are the common traits of a serial cheater: Those who are likely to have multiple affairs possess one or more of these traits, which take a starring role in their personalities. I have put together a list of attitudes and behaviors that are commonly found in those who are likely to be unfaithful multiple times. So, it is with that caveat that I have written this post. Ultimately, we can only predict what a person might do, rather than know with 100% what they will do. However, human behavior is always complex and a myriad of factors play into the decisions people make, for the better or for the worse. Though this is written using a man as an example, the traits would apply to women as well. After thinking about it, I put together this post about traits that set serial cheaters apart from “one hit wonders.” Note: Recently, one of the readers asked whether or not there was a way to know if a person who cheated would be a repeat offender. The 9 Common Traits of A Serial Cheater – Attitudes and behaviors that are found in those who are likely to be unfaithful multiple times. ![]()
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